You are a great guy. You care for females with the extreme respect, you're polite, trustworthy and an all around good man. You have perhaps asked yourself on more than one occasion, why women love bad guys? How do guys like Tommy Lee get sexy females, while you battle to keep any girl? How does the untidy bad boy biker living next door get numerous girls and have little trouble keeping them?

It is simple, actually. Women love bad guys, because they're exciting. Bad guys are unpredictable, out of the norm and different. The very aspects that make them bad guys are what draw ladies to them. Is not that ironic? No surprise people say love makes no sense.

The good guys on the other hand, may be faithful, but they also are usually boring. They get up each morning at the same time, go to work, come back home at the same time, have dinner, watch TV and go to sleep. They provide a good life for their family, are perfect for raising a family, but women get bored and begin to search for something a little extra exciting.

However, there are some techniques you can use to prevent this from occurring. If your woman likes bad boys, you should learn to be both a good guy and bad. Sounds impossible, right? It's not. The most successfully married men have discovered this lesson a long time ago.

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Even if you are comfortably ensconced in a relationship, you have to continue to excite your partner. It may seem irrelevant to date your partner at this point, but it might be the difference between a long happy and healthy marriage and a messy divorce.

Excite her, you can give her the similar things she is looking for in a bad boy, but combined with the qualities of a good boy. Be dangerous. Take her out parachuting, mountain climbing, bar hopping and demonstrate to her your wild side now and again. Make love to her on a public beach or trail. Get crazy on the dance floor or do anything goofy to make her laugh in public. Show her that you have a bad boy side!

You may be wrapped in a good boy package, but everybody has a bad boy in them, even if it's buried down deep in some people. Now that you know why women love bad guys, you are armed able to fight back.